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Even with access, adoptees still experience trouble with birth certificates

August 23rd, 2010 by Theresa
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Our friend and Massachusetts adoptee  Mia  graciously allowed us to post a recent experience she had in regards to her birth certificate.

Massachusetts is a discriminatory, unequal access state. In 2007, SB63 became law, forbidding adoptees born between July 17, 1974 and January 1, 2008 from ever having access to their own birth certificates.

Those unfortunate enough to be born in this restricted period must subject themselves to an insulting, demeaning and intrusive “contact information registry”.

Due simply to the fact that she was born before July, 1974, Mia is one of the Massachusetts adoptees who does have access to her original birth certificate. However, the state-sanctioned sealing of her identity continues to set her apart from the nonadopted. In her own words:

I just started a new job a few months back. After several weeks of just cutting me a check for my payment each Friday they asked me to stay on permanently, and had me fill out an application.

You all know where I’m going with this.

One of the forms to be filled out was the I-9 Employment Eligibility Verification, which requires you to provide several forms of identification to prove that you are an American and/or eligible to work the US. So I fill out all the paperwork and bring in a copy of my amended birth certificate (ABC) and my driver’s license.

About a week later, the head of the firm emails me and asks be to bring in another form of ID because they (“they” being the Human Resources company they subcontract with) can not accept my amended birth certificate because “it was issued from a city and not the state”.

Of course my adoptee radar was picking up that something did not quite seem right. I immediately looked at the instructions on the form I was given and then looked online to see if these forms had updated instructions. The instructions clearly state in List “C” that a birth certificate, defined as,

“Original or certified copy of birth certificate issued by a State, County, Municipal Authority, or Territory of the United States bearing an official seal.”

is an acceptable document for establishing employment authorization.

OK? Isn’t that what I provided? A certified copy of my birth certificate issued from the City I was born in.

The only thing on my amended birth certificate that would indicate it is an ABC is there is a line titled “Date of Amended Record” which is filled in with “—-” four dashes. I told my husband that “—-” must be Morse Code for bastard!

I was pissed but I didn’t want to say anything because a) this is a third party/outsourced HR company asking for this and not the employer himself, and b) any of you who have worked in the corporate world know that you complain once and you are forever labeled *a pain-in-the-ass*, and c) my friend who is a partner in this firm got me this job that I desperately need.

So I said nothing and like a good, little, compliant adoptee I brought in another form of ID. But, I’m still pissed.

After this I realized that I have never had a State issued birth certificate, so I decided to go get one. Luckily I work near Vital Records.  I got there at around 4:30, filled out the form, gave them my driver’s license and waited….

and waited…..

and waited.

The state employee finally came out with the form and proceeded to tell me, “Sorry it took so long, yours had to be typed out.”

READ: How dare you come in here at 4:30 on a Friday asking for this and make me dig out the typewriter!

So I quickly look at it and notice the “—-” are filled in for Time of Birth, Race, Birth Order, Plurality, Race of Mother, Age of Mother, DOB of Mother, Age of Father, DOB of Father, Race of Father and last but not least, Date of Amendment.

I asked him why there are dashes next to the Date of Amendment. He told me: “That is a very gray area and I’m not allowed to speak about it”

I told him that I already had my original birth certificate, and I was curious as to why I couldn’t know the date that MY record was amended. He told me he could not say!

We’re grateful to Mia for sharing this, and for continuing to strive for equality for all adoptees born in the State of Massachusetts. Unequal states with partial access need more adoptees like her willing to speak up, not only for adoptees in the sandwich years, but to raise awareness that in spite of equal access, we still are a class apart.

The act of changing our names and the facts of our birth place us in positions where we find it necessary to explain that we were adopted to strangers, and to be relegated as different and suspect by government employees.  Mia’s copy of her original birth certificate contains an odd handwritten note, stating her name was “Corrected to” and her new name, followed by a date eight years after her date of birth.

The released copy of Mia’s original birth certificate is still shrouded in secrets, lies and bureaucracy – information that a Vital Records employee is allowed to know about her life, but she is not. When exactly was Mia’s birth certificate amended, and why was her record of her birth “corrected” (as if her birth was somehow incorrect) over eight years after she was born?

A stranger at Massachusetts Vital Records knows but can’t tell Mia. She’s not allowed to know.

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Adoptees – Citizens, Not Commodities

August 18th, 2010 by adopteerights
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We were honored when Next Left Notes requested information on our protests to add to their website

Please visit – ‘Adoptees — Citizens Not Commodities’

Adoptee Rights Demonstration at Next Left Notes

http://bit.ly/a2lNuu

Thank you Thomas — and Happy Birthday!

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Letter to Chairman Frank Louis Oliver

August 16th, 2010 by adopteerights
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Please note there will be more Calls to Action in Pennsylvania as news progresses on this bill. We are encouraged to hear reports of those who have been calling, emailing and faxing as PAR announcements are sent out. Please keep them coming! If you miss a Call to Action on the day it’s announced, it’s never to late to pick up the phone or send a letter.

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August 16, 2010

Hon. Frank Louis Oliver
34E East Wing
PO Box 202195
Harrisburg, PA 17120-2195

Dear Chairman Oliver:

The purpose of this correspondence is to request you schedule a hearing for HB 1978.

This bill would restore access to birth certificates for individuals born in Pennsylvania with no limitations, exclusions or conditions. Pennsylvania was once one of the few states in the country that treated adopted adults equally to the non-adopted. Unfortunately, with the Adoption Act of 1984 this changed, relegating Pennsylvania adoptees into second class citizens who could only receive their birth certificates if both their original parents signed a parental permission form.

Pennsylvania adoptees deserve to be treated equally to the non-adopted, and to receive their own birth certificates should they wish without any government intrusion into their private lives. There are no other adults in Pennsylvania who are required to seek parental consent to obtain their own records of birth.

HB 1978 is a model bill that reverses the unequal treatment of adoptees caused by the 1984 Adoption Act, restores birth certificate administration to it’s rightful place inside Vital Records, and is fiscally responsible legislation. Movement on this bill is important not only to Pennsylvania adoptees, but to adoptees across the country who are hoping the Commonwealth will join Kansas, Alaska, Oregon, Alabama, New Hampshire and Maine as leader states that believe all persons are created equal and deserve equal treatment under law.

Please schedule a hearing for HB 1978.

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PAR Call to Action: Monday is “Contact Chairman Oliver Day” for Adoptee Rights

August 16th, 2010 by Theresa
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Via Pennsylvania Adoptee Rights News Blog. Please repost freely.

Monday is “Contact Chairman Oliver Day” for Adoptee Rights

Call/email/mail Pennsylvania House of Representatives Health and Human Services, Chairman Oliver, on Monday please! This is of vital importance that everyone who can contact him does.

Why? We need HB 1978 to get a hearing in the Pennsylvania House of Representatives Health and Human Services Committee. HB 1978 is a 100% clean access bill. If it becomes law, as-is, it will streamline Vital Services in PA. Adult Adoptees will be able to walk into Vital Statistics just like everyone else and get their Original Birth Certificate with no restrictions.

Your email/call/letter shouldn’t take more than a two sentences. Tell him you support HB 1978 and tell him to give it a hearing!

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Hon. Frank Louis Oliver (Chairman)
34E East Wing
PO Box 202195
Harrisburg, PA 17120-2195
Phone: (717) 787-3480
Fax: (717) 783-0684
foliver@pahouse.net

Do you live in Philadelphia County? YOU are HIS constituent. Let him know that!

——-More Info—————–

Read the bill

check us out at http://www.adopteerightspa.org/

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PAR Call to Action: **URGENT ACTION NEEDED–Help us Defeat HB 1968**

August 7th, 2010 by adopteerights
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Reposting via PA Adoptee Rights News Blog. Please repost freely.

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**URGENT ACTION NEEDED–Help us Defeat HB 1968**

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Dear Advocates,

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As you may have known, there were two bills in the Health and Human Services Committee that seek to change the portion of adoption law that governs an Adult Adoptee’s access to identifying information.
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HB 1968 is the BAD bill. HB 1978 is the GOOD, equal rights, bill.
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Unfortunately, despite all of our outpouring of support for HB 1978, it is still sitting in the HHS Committee. HB 1968, on the other hand, has made its way out of committee and is now before the PA House of Representatives for consideration.
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It is of utmost importance that HB 1968 be defeated. HB 1968 not only does not change the current law much at all; it actually makes it worse. Worse even yet, should HB 1968 pass, we worry that legislators (1) will believe that the law is improved when it isn’t and (2) won’t want to re-address this issue and portion of law, and will leave HB 1978 to die in committee.
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We cannot let the law get worse with HB 1968. We cannot let HB 1978 die.

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We have created a call-to-action made available HERE.
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In the call-to-action you will find:
(1) the text to the bill
(2) bill sponsors to contact
(3) a guide letter to assist those who are new to contacting legislators in drafting letters and emails.
(4) ways to help PAR and defeat HB 1968
(5) our Position Statement of Opposition to HB 1968 to give you an overview on the bill and why we oppose it.
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For more information, please see
http://www.adopteerightspa.org/

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Slideshow of images from the Louisville Adoptee Rights weekend

August 5th, 2010 by adopteerights
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Here’s our slideshow!

Please visit YouTube to view the video at:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_z8ZzvayL4U

The same old request applies!

1.) Give it a thumbs up

2.) Save it to your favorites

3.) Leave a comment

Thank you!

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The Adoptee Rights Coalition, live on ‘The Takeaway’

July 31st, 2010 by adopteerights
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Please join Diane Crossfield from the Adoptee Rights Coalition on ‘The Takeaway’ with John Hockenberry and Celeste Headlee to discuss restoring access to original birth certificates for adult adoptees.

Join us live, Monday, August 2nd when The Adoptee Rights Coalition airs on ‘The Takeaway’. The segment will start early at 6:49 AM EST.

Listen online or via your local affiliate station, found at:

http://www.thetakeaway.org/

Archived recording with commenting open will be available on the website after broadcast.

Thank you to The Takeaway for actively seeking adult adoptee voices on this important issue that effects our rights.

More about The Takeaway:

The Takeaway is a live public radio news show broadcast nationally during morning drive.

We are a joint production of Public Radio International and WNYC, New York City’s flagship public radio station. We’re produced in partnership with The New York Times, the BBC, and WGBH Boston. We have more than half a million listeners, an audience similar in size to many cable news shows. The show launched in April 2008 and our audience is growing. We air on more than fifty stations across the country, including New York, Baltimore, Seattle, Detroit, Atlanta, Miami, and Boston. We are continually adding new markets.

Our hosts are John Hockenberry and Celeste Headlee. John, a 30-year veteran of radio and television news, has won four Emmys and three Peabody awards. Celeste joins us from Detroit, where she was the Midwest Correspondent for NPR’s Day to Day.

As part of our partnership with The New York Times, audio from The Takeaway is regularly featured on the front page of nytimes.com. Our interviews have also been cited on CBS Evening News, CNN, USAToday, MSNBC, The Daily Show, The Daily Beast, Slate, and Politico.

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Booth Report – Day Two

July 27th, 2010 by adopteerights
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The end of the NCSL Annual Summit is fast approaching, and yet it feels like we just got here. Our collection of business cards, names, email addresses and positions is ever growing, and it’s both exhausting and exhilarating thinking about the amount of work to do once we all are back home.

The San Antonio Host Committee put on quite the show today as a reminder to legislators and exhibitors alike that everything is bigger in Texas. While we’re still in the thick of the Louisville convention, excitement is building for next year’s demonstration and booth at the 2011 San Antonio Adoptee Rights Demonstration to be held next year.

The fantastic music from ‘Asleep at the Wheel’ during the San Antonio BBQ Luncheon made conversation difficult at times, but we still were able to have many productive conversations with legislators.  As our booth was strategically located directly in front of the setup for the legislator’s lunch, we took advantage of our position to turn our table to face them, so they had a clear unobstructed view of the one thing we want: Equal Access – Equal Rights.

Our favorite quote of the day: “Kentucky is ripe for this type of bill”, overheard from two KY Representatives after their upbeat and positive conversation with Paula Benoit over the benefits to Maine from LD1084.

Not everything is upbeat and positive with all legislators, however. In spite of statistics, photocopies, history from equal access states and personal stories from mothers of adoption loss inside the booth, myths and misconceptions still run rampant in the halls of our state capitols.  And our least favorite quote of the day: “I’ve never heard about this from any of my constituents.”

Now more than ever it is vitally important that  our elected officials are reminded that we the people believe in equality for all. While our letter writing campaign has ended for this year, it’s never too late to write, call or visit your own representative.  The more they hear from us, the less they can dismiss our unequal treatment.

Tomorrow closes out the booth. We’ll be shipping everything back to storage and starting our wrap-up of the 2010  Adoptee Rights Demonstration.  With the rush of travel back home, there most likely won’t be time to get a Day Three Booth Report written, so this post ends the reporting from Louisville.  Thank you again for coming along for the ride, whether you traveled cross country to get here, or followed us from your home state.

We are encouraged by the positive reception our booth had, and the number of legislators who were impressed that a small grassroots group such as ours has made a commitment to attend their Summit.

We made a loud noise in Kentucky – now make a loud noise right where you are. Pick up the phone, or drop them a note – they need to hear from you. Just remember, it’s

Your Rights — Your Voice — Your Protest

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Booth Report – Day One

July 26th, 2010 by adopteerights
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The opening day of the Exhibit Hall was an exhausting, inspiring and amazing success.

The Adoptee Rights Coalition booth staff was swamped and hardly had time to tweet or provide any updates at all, as legislators and representatives from other organizations kept them jumping from the time the doors opened. Day 1 saw hundreds of names collected for our database, and an ongoing stream of legislators who were very interested in our mission. Many remembered us from  the demonstration the day before, and the evening and morning news videos of our rally.

Adoptee Rights Coalition Booth at the NCSL Legislative Summit

The majority of legislators asked intelligent, thoughtful questions, and were surprised to learn that birth certificates are not sealed at the time of surrender, but rather at the time an adoption is finalized. Our photocopies of the adoption decrees provided to many Baby Scoop Era adoptive parents showing the identifying information of surrendering mothers was a bright light of truth shed on the urban legend of “birthmother confidentiality”.

In addition to our educational materials (and of course, our Adoptee Rights Chocolates!), hundreds of AdopteeC.A.R.E. t-shirts were given thanks again to Paula Benoit, and it gives us great satisfaction to know that across the country people will be wearing shirts that proclaim — Original Identity is a Basic Human Right.

The booth continues for the next two days, and there is much work to continue after the Legislative Summit has ended. We will be busy not only collecting and sharing media of our time in Louisville, but following up with the legislators and interested parties who left the exhibit hall today knowing more about adoption than when they arrived. Thank you to everyone staying in Louisville, and everyone who helped make this convention possible.  Our important work continues.

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Greetings from the Louisville Adoptee Rights Demonstration!

July 25th, 2010 by adopteerights
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Thank you, thank you, thank you.

There just aren’t enough thank you’s possible for everyone who came today, and for everyone who supported us back home.

As always, thank you’s go to our beautiful Host City of Louisville, especially the Louisville Department of Codes and Regulations for assistance with our march and protest permit, and  Lt. Curtis Flaherty of the Louisville Police. The City of Louisville is as gracious as its reputation, and we are so fortunate to be spending the week of this important event in this environment.

Many thanks go to former Maine Senator Paula Benoit of Adoptee C.A.R.E. for her generous contribution of t-shirts to be worn by adoptee rights demonstrators.

Thanks to the dedication of those taking time away from their busy lives to come to Louisville, we have now had our third year in a row of educating legislators, many of whom had no idea their constituents are denied access to their own birth certificates.

While some legislators avoided the oppressive heat outside, those who braved the humidity received our handouts and sound bites on the discrimination endured by the adopted in sealed records states.

We are so grateful for everyone who came, for the 791 names carried with us, for those who wrote and called their legislators during our letter writing campaigns, and for the support and well-wishes we have received in the weeks leading up to this event.

Our work in Louisville is not over. While the protest has ended, the exhibit hall opens tomorrow. We have three days to connect and network with not only thousands of legislators, but representatives from other organizations inside the convention. Thank you to those staying to work the booth and spread this important message.

Some early press from Louisville media has popped up, on:

WHAS11.com – Louisvillians picket for adoptee rights to access birth certificates

WLKY.com – Summit Draws State, National Leaders

Safe travels to everyone traveling home from Louisville tomorrow. We will continue to bring you updates from the convention center on our Twitter feed, so please continue to keep an eye on

http://twitter.com/AdopteeRightsCo

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